The Secret To Future-Proofing Your Career
I’m a big Merlin Mann fan. He recently posted some material from one of his talks over at 43 Folders. The talk is about working and the right career.
I thought I should share some of his key points
On his talk that was the starting point for this discussion:
The talk started as a way to encourage students to learn enough about what they care about that any temporary derails and side roads wouldn’t scare their horses too badly. But, today, I see it as something a lot bigger that’s demonstrably useful to anyone who hopes to survive, evolve, and thrive in this insane world.
On the importance of learning and relationships
For myself, I wish I’d known the value of developing early expertise in interesting new skills around emerging technologies (rather than just iteratively pseudo-honing the 202-level skills I thought I “understood”). Alongside that, I wish I’d learned to embrace the non-douchier aspects of building awesome human relationships (as against “networking” in the service of landing some straight job that, as with most hungry young people, locked me into a carpeted prison of monkey work at the worst time possible).
On being a success:
Also how I wish I’d paid more attention to events, contexts, relationships, and change that were happening outside my immediate world —rather than becoming, say, the undisputed master of fretting about status, salary, and whether I was “a success” who had “arrived”.
Truly, pretty much anyone who feels they’ve “arrived” anyplace is about to learn a) how much more they could be doing outside the narrowness of an often superficial ambition and b) the surprising number of things they had to give away through the opportunity costs and trade-offs that lead up to every theoretical milestone.
On “chasing your dreams” and ignoring new opportunities:
Related, I think this is about how being an adult is not only unbelievably complicated in ways that you can’t begin to imagine—that it’s frequently defined by impossible decisions and non-stop layers of “hypocrisy”—but that there’s an invisible but entirely real risk to doggedly chasing the theoretically laudable notion of “following your dream.” Especially if it’s a dream you first had while sleeping on Star Wars sheets in a racecar bed.
Not because it’s a bad idea to want things or to have ambitions. Quite the opposite. More because, for a lot of us, the “dreams” of youth turn out to be half-finished blueprints for wax wings. And not particularly flattering ones at that.
By starting adult life with an autistically explicit “goal” that’s never been tested against any kind of real-world experience or reality-in-context, we can paradoxically miss a thousand more useful, lucrative, or organic opportunities that just…what?…pop up. Often these are one-time chances to do amazing and even unique things—opportunities that many of us continue to reject out of hand because it’s “not what we do.”
